Is life what you were expecting it to be?

When you were born you were just peeved that you were being force beyond your own will to be place in a cold cramped hurry-hurry world. You could not see past you mothers face, you could not choose your destination, you had no say in the type of formula that you drank. You were and in some ways still are totally helpless. When you took your first step, were your parents there to video tape it? No probably not.

When you were a little kid did you say to your self "one day i will be obsessed with something people will call the Internet and i will be famous like the girl Paris Hilton." No you most likely did not for a few reasons, Internet was probably either not invented or popular at that time, and Paris Hilton was probably still a teen or just not popular yet... But then again who is to say that she ever has been popular? well it sure as hell will never be me to say that. Anyways.

Life is unexpected it changes in the blink of an eye and you can never be sure when that will happen.

You probably told you self when you were a child that you would be a fire fighter or a fairy or a police man or a ballerina. Now that probably sounds more like it, now doesn't it? You didn't want to be anything but what you wanted to be and no one was going to put a stop to that. But as life goes on and you hit that awkward age of 11-13 you realized life is what made you and life will forever be what controls you.

When you grow up you are never the highest person on the food chain. There is always some one higher. It is my belief that all superiors are a figment of our imaginations. We think them up so that our work is more meaningful to us and to the people around us.

But none the less they insist on persevering and working us until our heads go flying off like a Fido on 'E' catching a bone. I think were most people begin to really understand life in place they failed to previously would have to be when they hit old age.

The saying 'hit old age' is probably the best way to put it due to the fact that many people would like to "hit old age" with the heaviest object that they possibly could, for taking there beauty and there brains and there all out sanity.

But back to topic.

Life is complex and a teacher of mine once told me that the youth is wasted on the young, because they cant see life the way that it was meant to be seen since they have not lived yet. Those who do understand because they have lived are to frail to enjoy there new found understanding.

I can imagine that like myself when you were a young child your first ambition was not to grow old to understand life. That, though is the way that life works. You expect great things and you achieve things to your own ability and then you grow old and gray and realize that life was far from what you were expecting it to be.

Loving looks

When you watch TV you see all of these "beautiful" people they all have 30 people to do their hair and 12 people to do there make up and 14 people to pick out there clothes for them. The have more make up on that a very unlucky lab rat and so much hair products that you wouldn't be sure if it was real hair or if they shared a wig drawer with Barbie. I read the other day that they are going to be putting a weight limit on models. (you must be over a certain weight to model.) These models now a days aren't what they used to be they are now on TV all around us and they are now children's role models. Little girls all over the place are saying every day I want to be like her. Not to be rude because I am a parent my self but are parents not showing these children that it is alright to be them selves? If they are then i have to say that the new generation of children is totally on a different level then any generation before it. In my generation it was that you got picked on by the bigger more popular kid and that you dealt with it you would go through school like it had never happened. You would tell your parents and they would tell you to walk away. Now a days you see a child get made fun of and the next day they are at school with there parents hand gun ready to blow the head off the first kid to breath their way.
Now back to my original topic. The supposed beauty that you see on TV is all hand made not original. You have to look for more than just looks you have to see that the person has a head on their shoulders and a brain in between their two ears located hopefully on the sides of their head. A long time ago i asked my self what i was looking for in a man and i came up with a sense of humor, looks, leniency, and more looks... oh and good in bed.(pardon that comment but its the truth) but i think the man that said it best was Ron White. He said this "If I could offer one piece of advice to the planet, it would be this: Don't marry for looks alone, and I'll tell you why. In a few years, when Barbara's boobs start sagging, she can get plastic surgery, have them lifted, move the nipple wherever. You can actually go to a titty bar, pick out a set of titties and say, "I want those titties on that woman." If her belly gets too big, she can get a tummy tuck and have a belly like a cheerleader. If her vision goes bad, you can have lasik surgery and have 20/20 vision. If her hearing goes bad, they can install a device in her ear that will give you hearing as clear as it was the day you were born. But let me tell you something, folks: You can't fix stupid. There's not a pill you can take; there's not a class you can go to. Stupid is forever."
So from now on re-evaluate the qualities that you look for in the opposite sex and love them for their intelligence first and beauty later, an if they aren't beautiful that they at least stimulate your brain and help you to be a better person.